Another year has passed and a new calendar is waiting to be filled with family schedules, social obligations and the myriad other appointments and tasks that fill one's days. In the event that a divorce or separation may be pending and children are involved, tossing the old calendar may not be the best idea. An old calendar can serve as a diary of children's activities and parental involvement in New Jersey. If child custody may be an issue in a pending negotiation, the data provided by the calendar can prove very useful.
Divorce is hard and often sad, and both of these are magnified when children are involved. Child custody can be a difficult issue to resolve as both parents typically love their child and consider the best interests of the child to be paramount. However, occasionally the feelings of animosity between the parents can spill over to the children and this can result in long term damage to child and parent relationships.
Divorce where children are involved can be an ugly process in New Jersey. Alternatively, a divorce involving children can be carried out in an atmosphere of cooperation and open communication that focuses on the importance of maintaining a semblance of family structure following a divorce. Regardless of how parents feel about each other, they typically share concern for the well-being of their children. How well children fair in a divorce depends largely on the structure of child custody and the continued relationship between the children and both parents.
Divorce is never easy and can be especially difficult when children are involved. Some splits are amicable and the couple make their own child custody arrangements. When that is not possible, the issue of child custody can be a very painful one and can lead to unpleasant outcomes in New Jersey.
The opioid crisis in this country continues to threaten lives and jeopardize families. Parents seeking help for their opioid addiction are frequently confronted with the prospect of losing custody of their children. In actuality, this can deter a person from seeking help due to the fear of losing his or her child. New Jersey is a state that does not equate drug use with child abuse and so losing child custody is not necessarily a deterrent to seeking help.
Child support can be one of the most difficult hurdles to conquer when a couple decides to divorce in New Jersey. The balance needs to be made between providing for the child's needs but also acknowledging the economic realities of both the custodial and noncustodial parents. In most cases, the noncustodial parent will pay child support to the custodial parent.
Fifty years ago, a typical family may have resembled the popular television family, the Cleavers, from "Leave it to Beaver." There was a mom, a dad and a couple of children. Today's idea of a family may look very different but the care and well-being of children is still a primary concern in New Jersey. As such, child custody arrangements should be constructed with the best interest of the child in mind.